This is what we call “rookie” behaviour. You are right to view these lesser beings with pity and scorn. Wear your like it is supposed to be worn – tied, straight down, and with a nice tie clip. I don’t know why men don’t invest in a decent tie clip. if you are going to unbutton or take off your jacket / sweater / whatever the hell you are wearing as your top layer, you have to have a tie clip. Otherwise keep the damn thing buttoned up and your tie of of the goddamn soup.